tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-468742979381267560.post394749465985884318..comments2011-10-25T00:09:17.250-04:00Comments on ...tales of a twentysomething: Co-Habitation.scanDEElous.http://www.blogger.com/profile/06615836059691448508noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-468742979381267560.post-66641559122317158482011-02-10T13:25:38.727-05:002011-02-10T13:25:38.727-05:00Sounds like a nightmare! My experiences were not s...Sounds like a nightmare! My experiences were not so awful BUT I do think that the luster wears off quickly as you say. And if you don't have a plan and a shared life course (aka marriage), then it's super easy to flounder and build resentment.Jess of CityGirlsWorld.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00004437710582683857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-468742979381267560.post-48612091099962513392010-09-29T21:59:06.599-04:002010-09-29T21:59:06.599-04:00Yeah i know, I'm totally jaded. I'm more g...Yeah i know, I'm totally jaded. I'm more giving a cautionary warning along the lines of, "Don't move in with someone you've barely been dating for 6 months who isn't 100% committed to you" as opposed to saying "Don't live together. Ever. Period!" Obviously, you don't need to be engaged or looking to be getting married to live together. But just, be smart about it. Don't do it out of convenience because you want someone to pay half your rent or because the other person lives in a nicer area, etc..scanDEElous.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06615836059691448508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-468742979381267560.post-77150262120514104042010-09-29T06:44:46.310-04:002010-09-29T06:44:46.310-04:00hmm... i think you just had a bad experience hon. ...hmm... i think you just had a bad experience hon. if it was this bad all the time, then people wouldn't do it, would they? sure, annoying stuff does come up but you deal with it. if you love each other the small stuff shouldn't matter. if you find that it matters too much, then obviously it's not meant to be. plus it's totally plausible to work out who pays the bills and who does what chores and whatnot in a grown-up relationship. i've lived with a bf before and we were together for a year and it was pretty sweet. the guy you were dating sounds like an ass and THAT is why living together made you crazy, not because cohabition is a bad idea :pkarisuma gyaruhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08448572213520961096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-468742979381267560.post-47126243300821259902010-09-28T09:57:00.957-04:002010-09-28T09:57:00.957-04:00AMEN TO THIS. Space is oft-neglected and forgotte...AMEN TO THIS. Space is oft-neglected and forgotten, but treasure your space!Krampushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06460804757583280283noreply@blogger.com