You told me we’re not doing this anymore and so, I’m not
thinking about you.
I’m not thinking about the first time we met in Grand Central Station and how your eyes lit up like a little kid on Christmas. I’m not thinking about the way you pressed me up against a window in a Manhattan hotel room and kissed me for the first time. How the sparks between us were so intense they could have kept Times Square lit for a year. I’m certainly not thinking about how intensely in sync we are in bed together or how we came together almost every single time.
I’m not thinking about the first time we met in Grand Central Station and how your eyes lit up like a little kid on Christmas. I’m not thinking about the way you pressed me up against a window in a Manhattan hotel room and kissed me for the first time. How the sparks between us were so intense they could have kept Times Square lit for a year. I’m certainly not thinking about how intensely in sync we are in bed together or how we came together almost every single time.
Another thing I’m not thinking about is how I met you in
Cincinnati for your 30th birthday. How we stuck our heads in those
silly cutouts at that festival or how I laid my head on your shoulder while we
watched them feed otters at the aquarium. I’m not thinking about how you held
me close and told me you never wanted me to leave Ohio. Or how that café we had
dinner at was playing The Smiths. I’m not thinking about how you held me in the
pool as I wrapped my legs around your waist and my arms around your neck and
how you kissed me and I felt like this was the first time in a long time that I
knew I loved someone again.
I’m not thinking about seeing your silhouette looking down at
me from the waiting room of a Japanese train station as I got off a 9 hour
train ride to see you. Or how our glasses banged together like two teenagers
when we finally got up the nerve to just thrust our mouths at one another after
months of being apart, and how we tossed them off comedically and continued
making out. I’m absolutely not thinking about how you woke up the next morning
and the first thing you did was put your arms around me from behind and kiss my
shoulder before you went to work.
I’m also definitely not thinking about how, when I was lying
in my underwear on a bed in a hotel in Houston, you emerged from the bathroom,
calmly walked past me, ran your fingers up my torso, went to the door to put on the “Do Not Disturb” sign and proceeded to ravage me
sweetly. Or how you adjusted the flower in my hair with the utmost care so that
you could see it head on. How at midnight on New Year’s you said, “Well, I
guess we’re supposed to kiss now”, pulled me to your waist, parted your lips
and placed them softly against mine. I’m not thinking about how when I said I’d
miss you, you replied “I never miss you; I have good aim.”
I’m not thinking about the hours we spent talking on the
phone or the IMs or the webcam chats or the sexting or the emails we’d send each
other at work. About all the smiles and laughs and hugs and forehead kisses and
handholds. Or the hours I spent crying over you and missing you from 9000 miles
away. Or about the phone call you made from the airport in Minnesota where you
told me you were no good for me, that I was too smart, that I should find
someone better.
I’m not thinking about any of those things at all.
Because we’re not doing this anymore.
